When a family member dies, please have your mortuary representative call the parish office. A member of the pastoral staff will contact you promptly to complete the liturgy planning process.
Our goal is to learn about the person who has passed and help your family honor that person’s Catholic faith and life through planning the three parts of a funeral celebration. We will guide you through the vigil, funeral liturgy, and committal details, and explain the ways the family may participate in each.
We will coordinate the volunteers involved with the funeral ministry to support a dignified and beautiful liturgy to pray for the deceased and to be consoled through our hope in the Resurrection. Our team's commitment is to assure that no member of our community grieves alone and to provide love, compassion, and support to families at the time of loss.
For advance planning of your funeral Mass, call the parish office for an appointment 619-463-6629.
All three parts are beautiful rites, combined to honor the deceased, give comfort to friends and family, and most importantly, to pray in the hope of resurrection.
Cremation is accepted by the Catholic Church; however, cremated remains are expected to be treated as if they were the intact body in a casket. This means that cremated remains should not be divided nor combined, nor kept in the home for any extended period of time. Scattering of cremated remains, whether at sea or on land is not consistent with the Church’s teachings on the treatment of human remains. Burial of cremated remains at sea (not scattering) is permitted by the Church, but requires permission of the proper civil authorities, and ensuring that the sealed container with the cremated remains sinks to their final resting place at the bottom of the sea.
Military honors, including gun salutes and the flag ceremony, are generally performed at the place of burial, though an honor guard may be present during the funeral.
Advance planning your funeral at Santa Sophia is a great gift of love that you can leave your spouse and/ or children. They will breathe a sigh of relief and truly thank you for it in their time grief! When you plan in advance you get to choose your preferred sacred music and Scripture readings. Your funeral will be just as you want it to be!
Call 619-463-6629 to make an appointment to plan in advance for you funeral.
When a funeral involves cremains, Santa Sophia Church uses an ossuary to house the urn or box during the liturgy.
The ossuary is used at the entrance of the church when the body is received by the Church. Four relatives or friends carry the ossuary forward during the opening hymn. Similar to the way a casket is moved and placed in front of the sanctuary and Pascal Candle, the ossuary is brought forward and placed on a small table.
At the end of the liturgy, the relatives or friends carry the ossuary out during the recessional hymn. The urn or box is then removed and taken to the cemetery or sea for the Committal.
The “Life after Loss” bereavement group gathers several times per year. If you are grieving over the death of a loved one you are invited and encouraged to participate. Many have found these sessions very helpful for processing their grief.
The group meets for seven weekly sessions and new sessions start several times a year. Learn more about our bereavement ministry.